1. DELEGATE

Heading for the beach?

Write out a list of things that need to get done:

• Prepare snacks or lunch
• Organize water and beach toys
• Pack towels and swim suits
• Pack hats and sunscreen
• Load the car

Now get everyone involved. Share your list with the family and let them pick a job  - many hands lighten the load. Bonus: We all feel valued and capable when we contribute.

Taking a 2-week car trip?

One mom gave the planning to her 9 and 11 year-old. Heck - they have way more time than us, and they love their computers! Here’s what they did:

• Developed the best route using Google maps
• Researched tourist sites and fun side trips on the internet
• Handled campsite bookings on-line
• Planned car games and snacks
• Guess what –  when the kids have a stake in the plan,  the complaining disappears and the happy meter is high!

2. PREPLAN

Whatever the outing, review important issues and get the kids agreement before hand! For example, before hitting the beach get their buy-in on

• The need for sunscreen and hats
• Water safety rules
• Budget for snacks and activities
• Departure time
• Prevention makes for more harmony and cooperation.

3. PACE YOURSELF

Give yourself some private time. Summer vacations are for parents too! Remember, you do better when you feel better. The whole family benefits. It may be as simple as a 30-minute uninterrupted bath.

4. KEEP IT SIMPLE

Have you ever returned from a family vacation needing a vacation to recover?

• Don’t overplan or overschedule. Everyone will return more rested
• Leave time for spontaneity and downtime.

5. MAKE CONNECTIONS WITH YOUR PRE-TEEN/TEEN

For those of you facing a summer with a pre-teen or teenager – no sweat! Here are some ways you can carve out some quality  time:

• Focus on their interests and do what they like to do – yes that means playing that video game you scorn at!
• Read what they are reading. This is a great way to get conversation going!
• Watch what they are watching, and make the popcorn to seal the deal. An important tip – don’t make comments or judgements about their show or you won’t be invited back
• Dust off the old board games. Kids never tire of Monopoly.

5. CARVE OUT ADULT TIME

Share time alone with your partner.
This shows your kids that you value and nurture important relationships. They will survive it and learn to respect your right to have it. And they could use a break from you too!

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